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Grappling With Class: An Unspoken Divide

Hoya Staff Writer

Published: Thursday, March 15, 2012

Updated: Friday, March 16, 2012 16:03

For Comen, Petersen, Wright and Zimmerman, GSP has been crucial to adjusting successfully to campus life, whether through resume reviews, etiquette trainings, interview practice or support over school breaks, when many low-income students can’t afford to head out of the District.

While programs like GSP and the Community Scholars Program — a Center for Multicultural Equity and Access initiative that provides support to racially, ethnically and socioeconomically diverse students — help participants of varying backgrounds adjust to Georgetown, students and faculty cite a lack of campus awareness and dialogue on the matter.

“Unless you’ve actually lived it, you can’t understand what it’s actually like to be poor,” Wolfenden says, later adding, “I think it gets to a point where you realize, pity would be so impossible to deal with that you’d rather just not talk about it.”

The feeling of embarrassment or discomfort can go unspoken for many students of affluent backgrounds.

“Do I apologize for the wealth that my parents have? I feel guilty about it a lot of time because I feel like I didn’t do anything to deserve it,” says Anusuya Sivaram (SFS ‘12), an upper-middle class student.

Heydemann sees the discomfort and the gaps in understanding as a communication issue, one that stems from the stigmatization that can accompany conversations about class at all points of the socioeconomic spectrum.

“We as a community really lack the language to talk about class,” she says. “We don’t understand what the word working class, middle class means. I think we need to build the vocabulary.”

For Sivaram, this discomfort can stunt the conversation.

“The fact [is] that there is this difference, and I can’t do anything to solve it without creating more discomfort,” she says.

Becoming more sensitive to the relevance of socioeconomic status — in many cases an invisible piece of students’ Georgetown experience — is essential, according to Heydemann.

“If we don’t make a conscious effort, a sustained effort to pay attention to the little ways that class issues seep into our everyday lives, there’s no way that Georgetown can really become a place that opens its doors to everyone,” she says.

Grounded by his roots but open to different perspectives, Petersen says he has seen cross-class conversation transform his Georgetown experience.

“It’s helpful to all of us to interact across these classes and divisions we have, because it humanizes the stereotypes and the caricatures that are always given to us.” 

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7 comments

Katherine
Tue Aug 7 2012 14:11
Ha, I just read the comments on this. The quote from me that upset you, Anoymous, was obviously printed with zero context - I wasn't contrasting myself with a supposed upper class enemy, I was telling Eamon that I didn't think he should focus on SYMBOLS of wealth when actual class issues are about more serious problems - typically when georgetowners do talk about class, they talk about expensive handbags and sweetgreen. For me personally (and this may or may not be true for any/all kinds of Hoyas), conspicuous consumption isn't as important as my tuition bills / parents' mortgage payment and medical bills, etc.
I think a really crucial part of this conversation is that we all have to be willing to listen to one another - instead of faulting me for something you thought I said, it might have been more productive to ask what I meant. (Again, I think the framing of a lot of these quotes left something to be desired).
Anonymous
Tue Mar 20 2012 20:05
Good article. As a Hoya from the 80s-90s, I dealt with the issues of race and sexual orientation. It took great dedication on my part to get the conversations started and helping those less monied to become integrated into the GU community--it wasn't easy. Class was also an unspoken issue then and remains an unspoken one now. Reminds me of graduate school at Michigan, one of my law school classmates remarked, she would not do as well as her younger sister who was at Yale at the time. Her sister had an American Express card her parents paid off for her, so her sister had the ability to go on the weekend and vacation trips, buy the trendy clothes, and money was no object. So her sister socialized with those from the upper classes. Her sister's opportunities will far outstrip her own because people usually hire or bring on those they are familiar to join the family owned firms or enter managerial governmental positions. Though my classmate was far smarter than her sister scholastically, by her estimation, her chances were half as good to achieve the same level of accomplishment.
Anonymous
Tue Mar 20 2012 12:24
Some good points raised, many of which mirror my own experiences as someone who could only attend Georgetown thanks to generous financial aid. The discussion of cultural capital in particular is hugely important.

However, I do want to highlight one portion:

"Katherine Wolfenden (COL '12), a former columnist for The Hoya, is working on a senior thesis that pertains to Georgetown's approach to diversity and difference. Wolfenden says her lower socioeconomic status affects every area of her life.

"Class for me is more a reality of my life, it's not about what people are wearing," she says, adding that perceived norms at Georgetown can run counter to many students' socioeconomic backgrounds. "People here definitely have a warped sense of what normal is.""

Let's be careful about making broad generalizations, Katherine. Just because students come from the upper-middle class doesn't mean that class for them is "about what people are wearing." And while it is true that some people "definitely have a warped sense of what normal is," I have found such people to be a distinct minority. "Normal" is also a dangerous word in these kinds of discussions; normal on Long Island and normal in Alabama are likely to be two very different things.

Anonymous
Sun Mar 18 2012 20:07
Agreed with Anonymous. All good things to tackle, but financial issues affect people of all races and orientations.
Anonymous
Sat Mar 17 2012 12:52
This is very well done. Congrats to The Hoya for tackling a very real issue with respect. Agree wth previous comments -- I hope this starts a discussion. Race and sexual identity have really monopolized the conversations on campus in the last couple of years -- it's time Georgetown talks about class.
MSB 2014
Sat Mar 17 2012 02:22
FI-NAL-LY. Somebody actually opened their eyes and sees that not everyone at Georgetown skated by on mommy and daddy's dollar.
Missy Foy, GSP Office
Fri Mar 16 2012 18:23
Great article. Fantastic writing and awesome interviewing. We are lucky these students are Hoyas. Hope this article starts a discussion!




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